Money - Your last power in old age!

Money - Your last power in old age!

 

How to stay 'safe' at old age:

  1.

  Do not retire. If you're over-aged, retire and get all the benefits but find 

another income-generating job or open a business that will keep you 

active physically and mentally.   Travel and bond with true friends, 

play a sport, learn a new hobby and volunteer in your community or parish. 

Don't loaf around. Your spouse will hate you because you've become a sloppy, 

listless bum with nothing good to say about the household and things that you 

never bothered about before. Solve crossword puzzles, play Scrabble, write your

memoirs, and above all, read ...this will keep you alert and keep Alzheimer's

at bay.

2.

Live in your own place to enjoy independence, privacy and a solo life. 

If you move in with your children, your rank or degree of importance is 

reduced to that of a bed spacer who has no place of honor or, worse,

like crumbling furniture merely displayed with no added value.

Might you kowtow to conform to their own rules that are not kind, 

considerate or mindful of you? If you witness your children engaged in

a war of will and wits with your grandchildren, whom will you side with?

Will they even appreciate your arbitration? Remind your children that

silence is not a sign of weakness; you are merely processing data that

is taking longer to complete.

3. 

Hold on to your nest egg, bank deposits and assets.

If you want to help your children, do give, but not to the extent that

you wipe out your life's earnings, singing heroically not a shirt on my

back nor a penny to my name.

Staying solvent and in the black is a good hedge against all kinds of tempests.

You will sleep better, you will not be afraid to express your opinion and you 

will be confident about yourself.

4.

 Don't believe your children's promise to care for you when you grow

 old priorities change. Many children are not guilt- ridden or filled with

 a sense of moral obligation when the wife and offspring take top 

 billing in their lives. There are still children who would consider it a 

 privilege to show compassion, genuine love and deep concern for their 

 parents but be warned that not all children think alike.

5. 

Expand your circle of friends to include young ones who will definitely 

outlive your old BFFs. Keep up with new inventions, trends, music and 

lifestyle including all the scams and schemes you should guard against.

Remember that when you mix with the young, you also open a fresh 

avenue to channel your thoughts, experiences and values through so 

that the lessons you learned are not lost, forgotten or buried with you.

6.

Be well groomed and smelling fresh of spring water all the time.

There's nothing more depressing than seeing people exhale when

you walk by because you reek of baul (camphor chest) or lupa (dirt).

Old age or bust, don't look and smell like a corpse when you're not one yet.

7. 

Do not meddle in the life of your children.

If they ask for your counsel, give it, but be ready to accept that they may

not take it. Their situations in life cannot be compared to the situations

that you experienced in your life. The playing field has changed and they

need to develop their own set of survival skills. If you raised them to

be street smart, they can handle themselves in tough situations and be 

able to read people. 

Champion and encourage their dreams and desires but on their own terms.

8. 

Do not use old age as your shield and justification for turning Grumpy.

There's nothing more annoying than an arrogant, old fool.

Welcome each day as another chance to be kind and forgiving, to yourself 

and to others.

9.

Listen to what others may say. 

Do not throw your weight around just because you are a septuagenarian 

or a nonagenarian. You are not a depository of knowledge.

Even if the roles have been reversed, make growing old a fun-filled, pleasant

experience for you and your brood.

10. 

Pray always and focus on your eternal life. You will definitely leave

everything behind, a final journey detached from burden and care.

Be more accepting that, sooner, not later, you will croak. Prepare your

swan song with a humble and contrite heart. If you believe in a merciful

and loving God, there is no need to strut like a star. Nobody is.

     Money - Your last power at old age !